Life: Whats and Whys

Life should mean more than just survival. Is it really just about studying for 25-30 years, getting a job, getting married, and then spending the rest of your life repeating the same routine? Like, seriously? Make money, feed yourself and your family, and live the same day over and over till death? And women – are they just expected to cook, look after household, and exist in a never ending cycle? Are they what you call “Wife-Materials”??

Come on, get a life. Break free from this so-called “healthy life”. The world is a book. Don’t spend your whole life stuck on the first page of what could be a masterpiece. If your whole existence is tied to a job, then where’s the space for meaning? For joy? For discovery?

Free yourself from this mental cage first. Build a mindset that grows. Don’t choose what to study based on greater job opportunities; choose what you love. The world already has enough machine-like humans, don’t become one more added to the pile. You are afraid of the unknown future, being unemployed and that stops you from following your passion? Don’t expect doors to open for something you’re not willing to fight for. If it truly matters to you, you’ll kick those doors open yourself.

You completed your studies and landed a job with a five-digit salary. Why are you satisfied with it? Why not aim for six digits? Seven? Why not build something of your own? After becoming a millionaire, why don’t you try to reach a billion? You built a house worth 5 crore, why not dream of one worth a hundred? Why not go for a Bugatti after having a Supra?

In the current generation, love before marriage is casual, but marriage is made complex. While you’re running after success, your future wife is already living in the present, with someone else her age because that’s what society makes easier.

If you have to be so-called ‘successful’ in order to marry a girl, what is the necessity of her in your life? Just fulfilling your physical needs? Even a prostitute can do that. You are spending 30 years of your life alone, working hard and running after success, and then offering your success to a girl who already enjoyed her youth with her classmate. Then, you label her a “wife material” because she says, “I’ll walk with you when you can’t afford a car,” or “I’ll share one ruti with you if you can’t afford pizza,” and leave it at that. Is that really what defines a woman’s role in your life?

Real “wife-materials” don’t wait at the finish line for a ready-made life. They walk beside their men through every step, through every struggle from the early stages of career. A real one doesn’t just accept hardship, she works with you to rise above it. She motivates you not to give up, supports you when it’s hard, and believes in your potential to change the situation. She’s not there to simply adjust to your limits, she’s there to help you break past them. Together.

That’s how the system should work. The universe has no boundaries, why should your life? Enjoy your life while making meaningful contributions to the world. Agree or commit sui*cide.